Love Never Dies. Love Is A Feeling. Love Is Ever-Evolving. Love never dies. You cannot know this to be true: that love never dies, and that love is eternal, until you are on the other side of the illusion that you are loving a person in a body that will die with that body (to include your own body). The person you fall in love with is yourself, in the eyes of another. Whether it is and adult or a child, a friend or a mentor. You are being brought back to yourself with the feeling inside of love, that you attribute to the other person.
It is you that is feeling the love. Live that truth and knowing. When you apparently fall out of love with another, it is you that is not loving the other. Can you see that? Look in retrospect at the trail of love in your life. On reflection, you can surely see that it was you all along, with the feeling of love from within you toward other. Romantic love is different. The way to know the difference is that it is a highly addictive state. You will do anything to get a ‘fix’ called the other person. You are attached. Love, true love, has no attachment. It is clean, clear, non-attachment, as it is eternal and there is no need to grasp onto it. Which is one of the ways of knowing, ‘is this true love?’ You can let it go, meaning let it keep moving, changing shape. In the moment that it comes in, you release it to the moment. It’s full.
- Love is a feeling. That is it. A feeling inside that fills you with something very familiar to your heart and soul. Love is you. You are here to bring the love that you are to what comes into your awareness, and that you pay attention to. Like a child that has come into your life that you are giving your attention to, and love. This is what grows us. Love. A very beautiful feeling of fulfillment, that is unconditional in nature. You can look into the eyes of your beloved and say: “I do not need you. I want to be in your life, and so here I am, lovingly. My love, I want to be with you, and share life with you”. That is wholeness. A whole person sharing love, not completing the other, rather sharing with the other.
- Love is ever-evolving. The energy of love cannot remain constant for a moment. It is energy. It is energy in motion. E-motion. Constantly moving and changing shape. Because that is the way of it. Where people (especially couples) get caught is in thinking their love will remain the same as the day they met. That the feelings will remain intact. They won’t. They can’t. The feeling of love changes moment by moment. It is actually growing you. What happens is we resist it by clinging on to a past feeling state. When we see the other changing and growing, from the love, we resist the changes and want the other person back. It can’t happen that way.
- Be open-minded. Be open-hearted. Be willing to ride the ever changing state of mind and being that moves with, and from, love. Love is who you are. Love with that awareness and all will be well in your world. Love what is real in your life. Reality is what is inside of you. Feel it. Love your self through life. It all grows from there. Fall out of love with you, and you fall out of love with life. Love is who you are. When you ride the river of love, it is like the river of life, constantly ever changing and evolving. Enjoy the ride.
